A to Z Theme 2016

For my 2016 A to Z theme I used a meme that I ran across on the blog of Bridget Straub who first saw it on the blog of Paula Acton. This meme is a natural for me to use on my memoir blog. It's an A to Z concept and it's about me. No research and nothing complicated. I'm given twenty six questions or topics to discuss that are about me.

In April I kept my posts short and uncomplicated. In the midst of it all you might learn a few things about me that you didn't previously know.
Showing posts with label Chicago. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chicago. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Make Me Smile #atozchallenge







Chicago  "Make Me Smile" (1970)




Make Me Smile

         During the early seventies I spent a few summers working at the equipment yard for the industrial contractor where my father was the bookkeeper.   There were a few other fellows my age who also worked in the same place.  Their fathers were bigwigs at the aluminum plant where the industrial contracting company always had a big job going on.   I guess all of our fathers felt like we needed to be doing something during the summer besides just goofing off.  Back then in Tennessee young men out of high school were expected to work during the summer to pay for college the rest of the year.  That is, if they went to college.

         The work was often tedious hot summer labor.  We'd clean equipment, help cut rebar rods for the building jobs, or spend hours out in a large expanse of land cutting weeds that threatened to take over on an almost weekly basis.   The weed hacking was probably the worst job since we swinging scythes under a blazing sun.  It was a time for letting my mind wander or listening to the inane blathering of the guys I was working alongside.

         One summer it was Tim, a lanky blond fellow with a cheery face.  He was a talker.  Mostly he'd talk about women and his sexual exploits, most which I doubted ever happened.  But he'd tell his stories in an amusing way that would give me a chuckle.   I don't think I ever saw him when he was being serious.  He did a spot on imitation of Terry Kath of the group Chicago singing "Make Me Smile", a song which was played widely on the radio that summer.  Especially the vocal part that had the "WhoooHooo!" sung after the lines of the chorus.   Now I can't hear that song without thinking of Tim out in that field cutting weeds and singing "Whoooohooo!" in a loud voice.

           Then there was Jackie whose father was a pipefitter for the contracting company.  Jackie was a braggart like no other guy I've known.   His stories weren't about women or the women he'd had as much as they were about him and how great he was or his older best friend and how great that friend was.  I always kept pretty quiet around Jackie because I knew I could not top any of his stories with any honesty involved.

            Like the time when Jackie was still a senior in high and went over to sit in class with his friend who was going to the nearby university.  Jackie told about all of the good looking college girls in the class and how they kept sneaking looks toward him.  Then his buddy started poking him in the back and in a reflexive reaction Jackie scrunched his arms together leaning forward which in turn caused his shirt to totally rip down the back.  He attributed the tearing of the shirt to his fine muscular physique and his powerful strength.  All of the girls now gazed at him with mouth gaping wonderment with him beaming back at his new admirers.

          Whether his stories were true or not, they made for entertainment to pass the drudgery of the physical labor.   Especially when we were working in the pipe shop with Jackie's father cleaning the rusty pipe fittings from job sites.   This was some of the dirtiest work I've ever done.  It was not hard work, just dirty work.  Jackie, his father, and I would sit on overturned cans around a big bucket of diesel oil scrubbing the fittings with a wire brush and then dipping them in oil to be put back into storage   His father was a soft spoken man who didn't say much.  He and I would be cleaning pipe fittings as Jackie rattled on about this or that.

         Jackie was always talking big boastful talk.  Then there was the time he was talking about some guy who had pissed him off something powerful.  Jackie said how he was going to "whip his ass".  That's when his father quietly stated, "Son, you're not going to whup anyone's ass."   I'd never seen Jackie get so quiet.  I wanted to laugh but I didn't even crack a smile.  I knew Jackie had a hot temper and I didn't want to be on his bad side.  Jackie was quiet for a while after that, but then a while later was back to his old braggadocio self.

         Those fellows that I worked with on that construction yard were not the kind of guys I would have hung around with during off work hours.   I didn't keep track of them after those summers were gone.  Tim probably finished college and got a job in a similar line of work as his father.  I easily picture him settling down into marriage and family.

          Jackie on the other hand probably had a wilder time of it.  I did get wind several years later that he'd been in a fight at the local American Legion and had been stabbed.   He'd probably opened his mouth shooting it off to the wrong person.  So far as I know Jackie survived the stabbing, but I never heard anything after that.   His father died from a heart attack several years after Jackie's fracas.   The old man had probably held a lot inside throughout the years and had a lot of stress built up.

           The construction yard is still there but it was bought out by another company.  The aluminum plant cut way back on production and there's probably not much contracting work to be done there anymore.  At least not like there was thirty years ago or more.

          That summer job paid for my college for a couple years and then I found a different job that was more to my liking.  The construction yard work was an experience that in retrospect was good for me, but not something I would have wanted to do for much longer than I did..  But when I think back on it, looking from my current vantage point, those summers make me smile.

          What was the hardest job you've ever had?   Were you friends with your co-workers during off hours?   Do you have good work stories to tell?


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Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Illinois

Photograph of Abraham Lincoln's home in Spring...Photograph of Abraham Lincoln's home in Springfield, Illinois (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

         I had known of the existence of Illinois since second grade.  At least that's when Illinois as a specific geographical location became evident to me. We drove through it when we were moving from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania to San Diego, California.  We stopped in Springfield and visited Abraham Lincoln's house and that was what I knew about Illinois at that time.

         Five years later we made another move--this time to Northwestern Indiana.  Once again we passed through Illinois.  Over the next few years my family would occasionally go perform our juggling act at various Illinois county fairs, but still the state somehow didn't register with me.  Illinois was a place that you either passed through or if you were there you didn't really notice that you were there.  To me at the time Illinois seemed like one big nondescript cornfield.

          The Chicagoland area didn't count.  We were there often, but I didn't think of Illinois when I was there.  Chicago was like its own state--a state without cornfields.  Chicago seemed real while the rest of the state seemed like a place that Chicagoans might dream about when they were asleep.  Then they would awaken, briefly puzzled, before rubbing their eyes and going about the business of living in an urban area.

          It was not until the mid-1970s when I woke up to the fact that Illinois was a real place that was actually interesting.  I had gone to work on the Ken Griffin Magic and Illusion Show.  They had ties to some people in Southern Illinois and the show gravitated toward that region for a while as we started doing promotional work and then performing the stage show.  We became immersed in towns like Mount Vernon, Salem,  Olney, and Effingham.

         There was something peaceful about the towns and down-to-earth about the people.  There were cornfields and farms like I had always seen before, but there were also small businesses, industries, and educational institutions.  Illinois was a real place with heart and value.  Illinois is a nice place to visit and probably not that bad of a place to live.

          When you think of Illinois what is the first thing that comes into your mind?   Do you think of rural areas as boring nondescript sorts of places?




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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Downey, California

Downey AvenueDowney Avenue (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

           I was given a choice between Downey and Chicago.   The pay and benefits would be the same job-wise. I'd lived in the Chicagoland area before and knew the weather could be much less pleasant than Southern California.   The job site in Chicago was not in an area where there was good housing so that would mean a commute and traffic hassles.   In the end, the decision was easy.   I chose Downey, California as the location of my new job, my new home.

         Downey was all about decisions, but that's what life is after all.  In the chosen home for my family the decisions were many.  I had taken a job as the manager of a wholesale costume company--the job of a manager requires daily decisions.  However, it was the decisions I faced at home that impacted my life the most.  They were not just my decisions, but also the decisions of my wife who soon became my ex-wife.

        There were tough times.  Emotional times.  Sad and happy times.  In the end though, it was a time of hanging in there and doing what needed to be done.  That was the crux of my biggest decisions--the responsibilities of raising kids, running a business, and eventually meeting a woman who would become my next wife.

         Over all, things turned out okay despite the job ending after eighteen years.  The kids all graduated from Downey High School and went on to be responsible adults.  I'm still with the wonderful woman I met and married in Downey.  We moved out of Downey after we got married, but not far--it's only a couple miles away and I'm still there several times a week.  I guess I could say I live in the Downey area, but for anyone not familiar with that I'd say the Los Angeles area.

         I guess what I can say is that when I moved away from East Tennessee in 1991, I moved to Downey, California.   And that's all I have to say about that.  It was a decision that now I live with.

         What decisions have you made that changed your life in a major way?   Are you happy with where you live now or would you prefer to live elsewhere?


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